Many at times,we see a relationship that was once filled with love
and packed with the blooms of roses become so chaotic that you begin to
imagine if that relationship was the one you once knew.These changes do
not just appear as a shadow but occurs gradually that if the proper care
is taken ,the disaster can be adverted.Thus it is important to know
some signs of a crumbling relationship
SIGNS OF A CRUMBLING RELATIONSHIP
1.You start being comfortable without your spouse:
A major sign that your relationship is on a journey of disaster is when you or spouse starts being comfortable without the other.It is important that on notice of this,you need to talk.Note what might have changed and gone wrong.Most at times it could be a result of lack of attention in the first place.We often teach our spouse how to stay without us by being too busy with work and other things,and with time drains the passion that was once in our relationship.So if this is noticed,you must trash it out for example,by spicing up every single moment you spend together.You could learn to find passion in doing something that he or she loves doing for example swimming or golfing or seeing a movie together.
2.You feel less Jealous of your spouse:
Jealousy is a very important indication of a great relationship.Many of us see the reverse which is quite wrong except for the extreme cases of jealousy.Jealousy most at times translates to value and personalization.If your spouse does not get jealous of other men or women around you,then he or she most likely doesn't value you.So the moment you notice this,then you need to ask questions as to where you stand in the relationship.
3.You forget important dates and issues regarding your spouse:
As the popular saying goes 'We your gold lies there your heart will be', the same to our relationship.If you spouse is really into you, everything about you becomes important, every conversation, anniversary dates etc.So when your spouse starts forgetting those dates and moments that where once special to you both, then know that sometime might be going wrong,and it is time to pick up your tool box.Start a conversation.Not one with quarreling but one to get to understand what might be going wrong.
4.You seek comfort in another:
The crown of a failing relationship is when you start finding comfort in the hands of another.This might not happen spontaneously but gradually.You might notice that your spouse who previously relied solely on your company to be happy,starts gradually finding comfort on another.This usually occurs when you starve your spouse of your presence due o a busy schedule.You might be the best or only friend of your spouse,but now they prefer spending time with others than with you.If this is noticed,then you must deal with it carefully.Try booking a date with them,with events and meals that interest them.You could go on a vocation to a place they always wanted to or a have their best meal prepared at home.There could be many reason to this,but knowing the cause is half the remedy.
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